When
Deanna and I got married, her father suggested that we speak to his financial
advisor about starting an investment portfolio. We showed up with our modest savings and he recommended two
mutual funds. I followed their
progress and noted, after a few years, that they weren’t doing so well.
I
asked the advisor about them and he said, “Well, historically they’ve done
well.”
And
I said some version of, “I’m a very respectful student of history, but how does that help us
now?”
And
he said then, what he would say to us over and over again, you need to look at
the long haul.
At
the time, I thought to myself, the phrase “you need to look at the long haul”
must be his way of saying, “I messed up, but I can’t actually say that.”
But
truly, over 25 years later, I’ve come to realize that he’s right. Investments don’t necessarily pay off
immediately, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t invest. Careful, mindful investments generally
do pay off in the end.
This
morning, I want us to think about our investments – financial and spiritual –
and the benefit they bring over the long haul. Specifically, I want to talk about the importance of
investing in the approach to Judaism that our synagogue represents.
For
several months, we’ve been urging the congregation to vote for Mercaz, the
organization that supports Masorti, or Conservative, Judaism in Israel. The investment in a type of Judaism in
Israel that is traditional yet open and fully egalitarian is crucial. But we don’t always feel the importance
of that investment, frankly, and we should.
Here’s
a situation that will explain way we need to invest in Masorti Judaism:
For
over two decades, the Masorti movement in Israel has sponsored a program to
prepare children with special needs for bar and bat mitzvah. Participants have
included children with cerebral palsy, Down Syndrome, ADHD, autism, blindness,
hearing impairments and learning disabilities.
Each
year, the Masorti movement partners with over 40 special education schools to
bring appropriate bar/bat mitzvah training to over 300 children with special
needs. Whatever the physical,
cognitive or emotional challenges, each child receives an aliya to the Torah.
This
is the only program of its kind in Israel and it has drawn families from across
the religious spectrum, including many Orthodox families.
Let’s
fast forward from the genesis of this program to recent events, April
2015. The Masorti synagogue in
Rehovot, a suburb of Tel Aviv, was planning a Shabbat morning b’nei mitzvah
celebration in a Masorti synagogue for four children with autism.
The
children go to a special ed school run by the municipality of Rehovot and their
teachers, with support from Masorti, had been working for months to prepare the
children. The families were
looking forward to the event with great anticipation.
Several
days before that Shabbat, the mayor of Rehovot, responding to pressure from
charedi leaders in the community and himself a charedi Jew, in effect cancelled
the b’nei mitzvah by forbidding the teachers in the school to attend the service
in a Masorti synagogue.
Now
the families are in what one Jewish leader called “Simcha limbo.”
At
this point, the future of the b’nei mitzvah celebration is uncertain. The Prime Minister received an
anguished letter from leaders of the Conservative movement and several modern
Orthodox leaders in Israel have denounced the mayor’s actions. Hopefully these families and these
children will have a bar and bat mitzvah experience like all other children,
like all other families.
Why
do we need to invest in Masorti Judaism?
Because through their efforts, all boys AND girls can be called to the
Torah and can claim their rightful place as emerging Jewish adults, because
they are bringing Judaism to Israeli families regardless of background or
circumstance.
Investment
is not always sexy. It involves
ongoing support. In the case of
Masorti, we have been paired with a synagogue in Ashkelon, Netzach Yisrael, the
only egalitarian synagogue in Ashkelon and, by the way, a synagogue which, very
much like ours, brings together Jewish families of all backgrounds – Ashkenazi,
Sephardi and Mizrachi.
I
will add, in light of the discrimination against Ethiopian Jews that has been
in the news lately, that Masorti leaders defended the Jewish legitimacy of
Ethiopian Jews when it was questioned by the Chief Rabbinate decades ago.
The
investment of Israelis and their American supporters in Masorti Judaism has
helped to widen the influence of this type of approach, the Judaism of
tradition and change. Because of
this investment, Masorti will continue to gain traction in the court of Israeli
public opinion.
The
parents of the thousands of special needs children who celebrated becoming bar
and bat mitzvah over the past 20 years understand the importance of
Masorti. They know that it was
because of the investment of resources and chutzpah that their children were
allowed to claim their rightful place.
I
am afraid that, deep down, those of us who practice the Judaism of tradition
and change are not prepared to invest in it the way we need to, not in Israel,
and not in our own synagogue.
I’m
not sure why but I have some hypotheses.
Firstly, we think someone else will do it.
Of
course, if we think further, we know that others aren’t likely to support us.
Orthodox Jews aren’t likely to support us, Reform Jews aren’t likely to,
perhaps understandably. So there’s
no one else to invest in the type of Judaism that allowed men and women of all
backgrounds and ages to lead services and share words of Torah a few weeks ago
on Shabbat Koleinu, when the men and women of Temple Israel learned and led
every part of our traditional service.
No one else to invest in the type of Judaism that maintains the balance
between tradition and modernity that we do.
The
second hypothesis I have is that on some level, we may fear that we’re not so
authentic. Besides, we’re
convinced that the future of Judaism will not be guaranteed by us. We’re not the ones keeping Judaism alive,
we say to ourselves and, perhaps, quietly to each other. It’s more traditional Jews that are
ensuring our future.
If
that’s how we feel, if we feel like grasshoppers, if we feel that we’re acting
in a fashion that isn’t authentically Jewish and won’t guarantee a Jewish
future, then we will likely fulfill that scenario through our action and our
inaction.
Except
that I believe, and I hope you believe, that our approach is authentic.
As
authentic as Miriam leading the Israelites in song and Deborah leading the
Israelite army 3000 years ago.
As
authentic as Rabbi Akiva taking the human dimension into account when
determining matters of Jewish law 2000 years ago.
As
authentic as Maimonides considering how contemporary philosophy could shed
light on Jewish thought and vice versa 1000 years ago.
We
need to invest in what we do – in our education of children and adults across
the lifespan – because we are authentic and because no one else will. That means challenging ourselves to
support Masorti in Israel and Conservative Judaism at Temple Israel to the
extent that we are able.
In
additional to ongoing financial investment, we need to invest in our own religious
and spiritual development.
Last
week, when Rabbi Adelson was delivering the sermon, I sat in the congregation
behind a family who are Temple Israel mothers. The mom is a student in our adult bar/bat mitzvah
class. The class spends over an
hour a week studying Jewish tradition and an hour a week studying Hebrew. She was following in the siddur and noticed
I was sitting behind her and asked me a question about an aspect of the
reading, which I answered.
It
was great that she was practicing what she had learned and inquiring about the
specifics and it was additionally great that her husband and young son saw her
doing so.
This
type of investment of time and energy definitely pays off. It occurs across the Jewish spectrum to
be sure, and we need to encourage it in our synagogue, in our context.
Every
time we learn something, read something, commit to deepening our knowledge and
our practice, we’re making an investment.
This
morning’s Torah reading provides a fine metaphor for the importance of
investment. It’s known as
shmita. Six years you should work the
land, and during the seventh year you should let the land rest.
The
rabbis said, זרעו שש והשמיטו שבע zar’u shesh v’hashmitu sheva – work it for six years, let it rest
on the seventh.
That’s
investment. The land doesn’t
magically produce without effort.
Our glorious tradition doesn’t thrive for all men and women, regardless
of background or circumstance, without investment. Investment that often requires clearing a path and planting
seeds and making sure there are proper nutrients.
I urge all of us to the think about the depth with which we invest in our tradition, a tradition which, in our hands, through the approach we use in our congregation and its Israeli counterparts, can bring fulfillment to each and every one of us.
I urge all of us to the think about the depth with which we invest in our tradition, a tradition which, in our hands, through the approach we use in our congregation and its Israeli counterparts, can bring fulfillment to each and every one of us.
Let
us assure one another that our efforts will bear fruit in the short term, and
over the long haul.
Originally delivered at Temple Israel of Great Neck on May 16, 2015
CJ and Masorti require investment of time and money.
ReplyDeleteWe can and should be appalled by this rejection in Israel, but we should be careful to cast stones when TIGN is no bright light in this regard, at least in my opinion. My middle child, who is autistic, became bar mitzvah at TIGN not because of some great network of support for young people with special needs, but in spite of the absence of one, and simply because I stumbled across an amazing teacher, Norm Kerman, who taught Noah with extraordinary love, patience and skill. Noah's triumph was entirely to Norm's credit, and to the credit of Noah's family, who committed to having him become bar mitzvah. I cannot really give much credit to TIGN, especially when Mr. Kerman was not retained in his bar/bat mitzvah prep role. He was hands-down the best person I'd encountered in that regard in all my years at TIGN, yet he wasn't deemed important or good enough, I suppose, to keep on. Sent a powerful negative message to families like mine, and to young people like my son. So sure, let's support Masorti in Israel, but how about looking in the TIGN mirror and reckoning with how we've failed these kids and their families as well.
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